So many times people say they want a good person in their life and when it happens they’ll take advantage of  the situation. Working here I get a lot of letters, emails and phone calls from men and women saying the person they are with is great but…….. Personally I think people that ask for what they want and get it and are still not satisfied are selfish people and will never be satisfied. It’s like someone who says that has other issues about relationships they haven’t settled and if that’s the case why are you asking for something when you still have commitment issues? Selfishness comes to my mind. I’m not saying people need to settle but stop being so superficial and stop making up excuses for your short comings. I recently had a young lady email me that she loves the guy she is seeing and he’s everything she has asked for but she had issues with her dad not being around and she has had bad relationships. She’s scared he’ll leave her like her dad left her mom. What can you say to that?  How about this….stop asking for blessings that your not ready for. I’ve been in a situation like that and let me tell you it sucks. When you think you’ve found someone only to find out you’ve been wasting your time with them it really shows lack of respect for you and selfishness on their part. Unless the issue is resolved your relationship is heading nowhere. If you know you have issues about relationships……..stop getting into them! Remember you get out what you put in. If you want to be by yourself then do just that. If you want to lie to yourself that’s one thing but don’t do it to the people who care for ya.  Just my opinion but if you like drama continue to do what you’ve been doing. What do I know huh?