Posted by Marty Freeman on January 26, 2010
I was reading a very interesting article on ‘Why black women believe men so easily when it comes to religion. The author went on to say that she interviewed over 250 single, married and divorced women combined and the one thing that the majority of them had in common was religion and wanting a religious man. They were from different socialand economical backrounds but they shared religion common. The majority of the ladies said that they are attracted to men who say they attend church and/or express religious beliefs. Some of the ladies say that their men only expressed those beliefs to impress them and they didn’t go to church before they started to date or before they got married. They said there men talked one thing but actions said another. Have you even thought about this before? Do you know someone who believes any and everything a person says as long as it’s about religion? It’s not just black women although it might seem like it because in our culture the churches are busting from the seams with black women. Some of the ladies expressed that even when a man has done them wrong they always have the church to fall back on. Every situation is different but the next time your in church just take a look around and you’ll see the make-up of the congregation. The article wasn’t painting anyone who attends church regularly in a bad light it was just showing how people can be manlipulated when there guard is down. It’s the last place and the last thing you’d think someone would lie about but it happens everyday and not always in church. It could be at school, work, or anywhere. The state of Missouri’s Slogan is “The show me state” and that’s how I roll. Talk is real cheap and I’d like to be judged on my actions. In summary just because someone says all the right things about what your passionate about doesn’t mean you should give them the key to the city without examining things first hand. Satan was extremley knowledgible of the word and you know what happened to him right? There’s an old saying….Believe all of what you SEE and half of what you Hear. Your thoughts are welcome.



MANY ARE TRYING TO FILL A LIFELONG “NEED” TO BELIEVE IN SOMETHING…WHY NOT HIM? I BELIEVE THIS HAPPENS BECAUSE THEY DON’T KNOW THEIR BIBLES…WHICH IS “NOT” ABOUT RELIGION…THEY DON’T KNOW THE BIBLE WAS WRITTEN TO GUIDE/SHOW US HOW TO LIVE ON EARTH IN ORDER TO GET TO “HIS” KINGDOM! ALTHOUGH HE MAY NOT KNOW HIS BIBLE EITHER…HE “DO” KNOW IT’S HIS “BEST” TOOL IN GETTING HER CONFIDENCE…ATTENDING CHURCH DOES NOT DETERMINE HIS WORTH AS A “MAN”….WHAT DOES IS…HOW DOES HE CARRY HIMSELF (TRUSTWORTHY; LOVING; ETC)DO HE “KNOW” HOW TO TREAT/LOVE PEOPLE IN GENERAL…IF HE CARRY “LOVE” WITH HIM…THEN HE HAVE THE MAKING TO LOVE HER OR AT LEAST BE HONEST WITH HIS FEELINGS….REMEMBER “HE” SAID “LOVE” WAS FIRST OF THE 3…ALL ELSE FALLING UNDER IT..MEETING HIM IN CHURCH CAN BE AS RISKY AS MEETING HIM AT THE CLUB.
Comment by gerri patterson — January 27, 2010 @ 9:36 am