What does dating mean to you? It sounds like such a simple question but yet we seem to make it difficult. Some people look at dating as having a variety of different relationships with no real expectations. Keeping things light and no real boundaries. Probably in the urban community dating is almost exclusively one on one until  recent years. Of course there’s some exceptions but on the whole we don’t openly casual date. Maybe that’s the problem with urban relationships. We don’t think outside the box when it comes to relationships. Maybe if more people would date a variety of people casually it would take some of the pressure off. Maybe it would give you a real good look at the person for who they are and not what they can provide  for you. I know for me with the dating nightmares I put myself in I could probably benefit from slowing down and dating casual. Dating doesn’t mean your sleeping around either. Just getting to know each other with zero expectations and if things happen we handle it as adults.No matter what side of the fence your on when it comes to dating just make sure your honest to eachother about what you want from eachother. Sounds simply enough right? RIGHT! So….What is dating to you?

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Ok I know you just can’t ask a lady to choose one over the other but tonite for “Ladies Night” what would you rather have….A good Meal, a good movie or a good gift!

Ok I know it might sound far fetched but people do it all the time and that’s being in a relationship because they’re lonely. You might have done this before and I’ll admit to it as well. We all have our reasons but sooner than later the shhhhh hits the fan and now you have to deal with it. So I ask you…..Are you with someone just so you’re not alone? Why/ Why not?

If your like me and can’t sleep at night you’ve seen the commercials for the pills that INCREASE your size and stamina? There’s a market for it but is the pressure coming from women? So ladies does it still come down to size or is it stamina, frequency or what? What makes a good lover?

In a society where it seems we’re working LONGER hours, and in some cases making less money, and by the grace of God, trying to hold on to our jobs, do you really find yourself working right through your weekends, where not to long ago, they were the ’special days’ to spend quality time for not only self, but with friends and other family members…a time for that ‘me time’, where you could focus on things that totally separated you from the hustle and bustle of the work week. Now with a continued struggling economy and for ALOT of us, it’s become a full-time job just trying to find a job, due to massive lay-offs!! But if you are still able to call the weekends your own..could you PLEASE on your relaxtion secrets to the rest of us:)

Some people for whatever reason just don’t like the holidays and all it brings. The pressure of the holidays causes problems in family’s and in relationships. How do the holidays affect your relationship?

We’ve all heard of the term “Suga Daddy” and I’m pretty sure there’s someone that comes to mind when you think of it. Now a days “Cougar” is the new term for women but the practice of older women wanting and getting younger men has gone on for ages. Which one of these terms is more acceptable today in our wide open society? For me “Suga Daddy” means an older, mature, established, seasoned gentleman taking care of a younger woman and in return he receives a huge lift in his ego if you follow me. “Cougars” might shower the younger men with gifts or might not. The younger man isn’t looking for that but would except it if given. He knows what his role and job is and is very happy to perform his job. I could be wrong and no I’m not talking from experience!(shhhhhh lol) Comments? What do you think?